benefits of self-love

Tune In to Self-Love: Your Ultimate Valentine’s Day Playlist

Valentine’s Day is upon us yet again. Whether you celebrate the day or hate the manufactured consumerism it entails, you can still use it as an annual reminder to love the most important person in your life: YOU!  To that end, here’s a special gift from my heart to yours—a carefully crafted Self-Love Playlist designed to help you reap some of the benefits of self-love simply by pressing play. 

Why a Self-Love Playlist?

There’s nothing wrong with romance, but I honestly feel like society focuses too much on finding love outside of ourselves instead of within. The truth is that self-love is a foundational aspect of our overall well-being and happiness. It influences how we navigate life, our relationships, and how we cope with challenges.

What Are The Benefits of Self-Love?

  • Improved Mental Health:  Self-love is associated with reduced levels of anxiety and depression. When we appreciate and accept ourselves, we are less likely to experience persistent negative thoughts and emotions.
  • Increased Resilience: Loving oneself fosters resilience, enabling individuals to bounce back more effectively from failures, setbacks, and challenges. It promotes a growth mindset, where obstacles are seen as opportunities for growth rather than insurmountable barriers.
  • Better Stress Management: Self-love involves self-care, which includes taking time to rest, recharge, and engage in activities that bring joy and relaxation. This can significantly reduce stress levels and improve our ability to cope with stressors.
  • Healthier Relationships: When we love and respect ourselves, we set healthy boundaries, communicate our needs effectively, and are less likely to stay in toxic or harmful relationships. Self-love also enables us to be more compassionate and understanding partners, friends, and family members.
  • Increased Self-Esteem and Confidence: Self-love nurtures a positive self-image and confidence. When we value ourselves and our abilities, we are more likely to pursue our goals, take risks, and believe in our capacity to achieve.
  • Greater Life Satisfaction: Practicing self-love helps us appreciate our journey and celebrate our achievements, leading to a deeper sense of fulfillment and contentment with life.

Those are just a FEW of the benefits of self-love. I could write a whole post about it (and maybe I will!), but you are probably here for the playlist, so let’s get to it!

The Magic in the Music

I’ve poured my heart into selecting songs that resonate with empowerment, joy, and the spirit of self-celebration. From anthems of independence to tunes of tender self-compassion, I’m hoping each song will be a reminder of your magnificence, your resilience, and your undeniable right to love and be loved—starting with yourself. Does this all feel a little cheezy? Well, that’s how self-love can feel when you’re not used to practicing it, but I promise it gets better.  

The vibe of this playlist it upbeat and empowering at the beginning and end, with a soft, mushy self-love center. 

Creating Your Own Self-Love Playlist

While I personally think my playlist is perfection, I fully understand that not everyone enjoys the same music. If you’re not feeling the Morning, Human! vibes, here’s how to craft your own self-love playlist:

  • Identify What Empowers You:  Reflect on the songs that make you feel powerful, happy, and loved. What melodies lift your spirits or bring a smile to your face? Start there.
  • Lyrics That Speak to You: Choose songs with lyrics that resonate with your journey. Words have power—let them affirm your worth, your strength, and your right to happiness.
  • Mix It Up:  Variety is the spice of life, and your playlist should reflect that. Combine upbeat tunes that make you want to dance around the room with soulful melodies that hug your heart.
  • Personal Anthems: Include songs that have been there for you in pivotal moments of your life. These tracks hold the energy of your triumphs and resilience.
  • Keep It Fresh: Your relationship with yourself evolves, and so should your playlist. Add new discoveries and rotate tracks to keep it reflective of your current self-love journey.

Let the Music Play

Self-love is not a one-time achievement but a continuous practice that evolves and deepens over time. It requires intentionality, effort, and sometimes, the courage to confront and heal from past wounds. But it’s so worth it! Cultivating self-love can transform your life, opening up a world of possibilities for growth, happiness, and fulfillment.

So, this Valentine’s Day, let’s celebrate the most important love affair of all—the one with ourselves. Turn the music up, let your heart sing along, and dance like nobody’s watching. After all, this day of love is a perfect occasion to honor the most enduring relationship you’ll ever have: the one with your beautiful, radiant self. 

Happy Valentine’s Day!! May your day be filled with music, joy, and an abundance of self-love. 💖

We hope you like this self-love playlist. Let us know what songs you’d like included on the next Morning, Human! playlist in the comments below, and follow us on Spotify for more.

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  1. What do they say on the airplane? Put your oxygen mask on first. I know it’s a cliche but it’s true! Self love is the equivalent of this for mental health. We need to take care of ourselves first so that we can be there for others!

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